Those Nepali guys and their foreign loves

Incredible things happen here in Goa

Incredible stories happen and make you think about morality standards, about how low human beings can go to reach their goals, how desperate Western girls are  and how, on the other hand, desperate Nepali man are .

Here is this 23 year old slim Nepali boy (I cannot call him man!) and here is his wife – 39 years old curvy (nicely said) lady. They look like a mother and son. They just got married. There is no Canadian embassy in Kathmandu, so they had to travel to Delhi to apply for spouse visa for him. As they already were in India they decided to visit Goa and have something like a honeymoon.

I was told by another Nepali who knows the just married guy, that he got married just to get to Canada. I guess having holidays in Goa is just something that comes as an extra, complimentary. A big expensive camera on his neck too.

I just don’t get how this lady doesn’t understand what is going on. Why does she believe it’s a true love story? She just needs to look at the mirror – she is not pretty, a bit fat and not young lady from a country which is considered as very wealthy. And her husband – young, not ugly, thin boy from a poor country.

 And somehow I think that this is even worse than prostitution. Prostitutes sell just sex, they charge for something which both sides understand just as some service. Client knows that he came for sex, not love. He knows that he is paying for it. Prostitute does the job.

And here this naïve woman believes that she gets love, a husband for all her life. And the guy not just makes love for money, he also pretends 24/7 that he loves her. And she doesn’t realize it’s just for money. In prostitution both involved parties understand what is going on. In this case – only one of them does. And selling feelings, not just sex, in my opinion, is a sad and cruel thing. Even if this is just the only (I don’t think so) way out of poverty.

Another guy, a bit older than the first one (around 30) is a real professional. He runs a resort in Goa. So he has a lot of opportunities to meet loads of Western girls. All could be almost fine – I mean there are plenty of men who change girls every week or weekend, like he does. As well as there are girls who do the same. And he has it very well – tourists come and leave all the time. BUT, he has a family back in Nepal – a wife and two kids. And as this is not enough, there are girls and women who he kind of has relations with, not just sex. And sometimes it even happens, that a couple of them visit his resort and of course him at the same time. But this doesn’t stop him. He even slept with an old lady just to get a German visa. She promised to help him and told to come to her room the same night. He did. And later in Germany he constantly fucked her. But not just her.

His cousin, a bit younger, but also with a family back in Nepal – two kids and a wife. But maybe this one is even worse than his big cousin, from whom he maybe got his first lessons. He managed to cheat not only his wife, but also his permanent girlfriend (lover)! He was also having a new girl every week. But this guy also met a very young girl from Germany, who came to Goa with her parents. And she fell in love with this Nepali Casanova. And even after she left they kept in touch. As a girlfriend and a boyfriend. But that did not stop him to fuck around. She managed to get an internship here in Goa, so now they are staying together and maybe he stopped double cheating. By the way, before coming here, his girlfriend went to Nepal, where she visited his family! How freaky is this – visiting your lover’s wife and kids.

P.s. The night I was writing this piece, the first guy left his wife sleeping alone in a room and decided it is better to sit with his Nepali fellows and tell them things about his life (improving for sure), including that this lady is already the 53^rd in his list (he had Nepali girls as well as girls from all over the world before).